Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Someone just asked me my opinion on something..

Here is the anonymous question:

What do u guys think of staying in a co-ed house as in guys n gals staying together? Is in acceptable?

What do everyone say?

9 comments:

Alfred said...

Of coz it's ok. It's totally all right for gals to stay with guys, as long as not in same room of coz. But i dun see any reason y it's wrong.. Hmm, but it's a gd qn. Haha. Usually ppl ask that too!

Prissy said...

Samuel.. U r really interesting!!!!

siew wai said...

OCF teaching: NO MIXed HOUSEHOLD.

not a sin, but not a good practice.

why? for 3 reasons:

1) temptation. even if you are not in a relationship.
The devil can attack/tempt/distract us in whichever way. We do not give him a single foothold or a single chance. Don't play with devil.

2) it stumble others, esp weaker Christians. Chances are, when they watch you doing so, it gives them an excuse to think 'it is ok to stay with bf/gf'.

3) same gender household is good in terms of :supporting each other.

** this has been a teaching passed down from generations to generations, it is not out dated grandmother teaching, it is to PROTECT we all.

** it is not easy to be the salt and the light. the world is watching EVERYTHING that we do. We'd rather play safe to avoid stumbling anyone.

KongY said...

*hands up*

A guilty one making his footsteps..

Not a good practice =)...

We guys in the brother's ministry will be addressing this issue somewhat soon .

I five star-ed all sw points.

siew wai said...

hehe kongy, this post is not directing twrds anyone. don't feel guilty.

Prissy said...

My comments exactly.. Whoever asked me this question.. guess u got the answer straight..

May u make a good decision..

In Summary, its not a sin but not a good practice..

This question, is not just for that person but for everyone.. me inclusive..thanks everyone for the points that make it so clear.. God Bless..

siew wai said...

yes jer333, to flee needs energy. thanks. u are...

Prissy said...

Hey guys, for all who dunno.. Jer333 is my Aunty Esther (My mum's sister ). Quite a few of you have met her last year if u guys recall.. the time when my dad passed away..

siew wai said...

hi aunty esther!!! :) how are u in the States? my warm regards to you.